Then here are some questions to discuss:
Let’s start by reading Matthew 6:9 to 13 (whichever version you want).
God wants to know our needs, including our desire to be in a relationship. But our prayer shouldn’t be just that. It must be balanced. Before asking God for a partner, Jesus recommends that we start by saying: “Our Father”. What does this teach you? Why is it important to start by reestablishing our sonship?
Next, Jesus’ model prayer says: “Hallowed be Your name”. What does this mean to you?
According to this model of prayer, we must begin by re-establishing our sonship and raising his name. If you’re in a moment where your whole being is screaming “I want a mate now”, and you stop to reestablish your sonship and raise his name first, what do you think that will create in you?
The model of prayer continues by saying: “Your kingdom come. Your will be done On earth as it is in heaven” What is the will of God? (Read Matthew 18.14) Why should we pray for this?
If you are in a moment where your whole being is screaming “I want a partner now”, and before you ask God for a partner, you start by praying for lost souls, for your calling, etc., what do you think it will create in you?
After putting God back on his throne, after putting his needs before ours, it is time to present our needs to him (“Give us this day our daily bread”). God knows everything, so why do we need to tell him our needs?
If you are in a moment where your whole being is screaming “I want a partner now”, and you have done the previous two steps, what will it create in you to tell God your need? (Ideas for answer: humility, listen to his instructions)
Then comes the part: “And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors”. Why do we need to include a time of repentance when we elevate our needs to God? (Ideas for answers: to remain teachable) And why is it so important to forgive others when we pray for a partner?
The beginning of verse 13 says, “do not lead us into temptation, But deliver us from the evil one” Why should we ask God for protection? And how will this influence our prayer for a future partner?
The model ends by giving glory to God. What state of mind should we be after praying - in a balanced way - for a future partner?
In summary, when we have a great need for a partner, we should first reestablish our filial bond with God, take time in praise, pray for the lost, then tell Him our need, but also repent and forgive, put ourselves on our guard, and conclude with an attitude of victory.
Some prayer points to conclude:
Thank God for this model of prayer;
Ask the Holy Spirit to help us keep a balanced prayer life;
… And of course, please pray for Passion374! Thank you!
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