Some people say that they are waiting on God to present them their husband or wife to be. They use this as a very spiritual attitude to explain why they are still single. But often this attitude hides little monsters that should be taken down!

You want to get married. Celibacy… is not for you! So should you seek, like Matthew 7:7 says, or should you wait for the Lord like Psalm 130:5 says?

If your faith is really important to you, you need to marry someone that not only claims the title of “Christian”, but really demonstrates their commitment to Christ. Where could you find such a person? Surprisingly, they may be outside of your local church!

Many single Christians say “I can’t wait to receive the husband (or wife) God has for me”. Others will encourage singles by saying: “He (she) is coming, God is preparing you a good one.” These are nice words, that look very spiritual, but aren’t they completely selfish?

This week, I want to honor my best friend, whom I affectionately nicknamed “Cupcake”. She just got engaged and learned a great lesson in the process of finding her sweetheart, one that many singles should follow.