Then here are some questions to discuss:
A goal is something you can do for yourself. Marriage cannot, therefore, be a goal, because it takes 2 people to get married! But what goals can you give yourself to be more ready to get married?
Do you have other personal or professional goals that you could share with us?
Do you have a spiritual goal or plan? Something you have in heart to do to make the Kingdom of God grow?
Oops! Wrong person!
Have you ever waited for a response from someone, and even been angry about waiting only to realize later that someone else had your response? A classic situation where you were looking at the wrong person. What if it was the same as seeking a partner?
Gain a marriage, but lose your soul
When we wait a long time for a partner and loneliness becomes heavy, we may be tempted to make significant compromises. However, despite our exasperation, we must keep the price of our soul in sight.
Getting married with an ultimate goal
Many singles feel that the weight of loneliness is too heavy to bear and they seek comfort in marriage. But is it wise to marry for only that reason?
Dating without thinking about marriage
“No, we’re not thinking of marriage, we are just getting to know each other.” A phrase we hear often and looks good, but can be very dangerous.