Then here are some questions to discuss: As a human, we tend to take the easiest path in all things. Why is it easier to have a circle of friends that are all our gender? What are the advantages and disadvantages of having ministries in the church only for women, and only for men? Jesus had a mixed circle of disciples. Luke 8:1-3 Paul also worked for God with women.

Men have different interests than women. The activities they do, what they are passionate about, are often quite different. Some people find it more comfortable to have a group of friends all of the same gender. However even if it is more comfortable, having a unisex circle of friends is one of the best ways to stay single.