Is it a sin for a woman to make the first move? Will it scare a man off because it’s too pushy? When a woman takes matters into her own hands does it mean she doesnt trust God? All very hard questions.

Then here are some questions to discuss: One of the biggest blockages for singles to enter into relationships is pride. How do you define “pride”? Pride can be manifested by being very sensitive to the opinions of others. Why do you think? Why can caring about the opinions of others be a form of pride? Pride can also manifest itself in the desire to control everything. Why do you think?

In the Christian community, it’s not very common for a woman to make the first move. What does the Bible have to say about that? How do the 4 most popular arguments hold up?